{"id":24299,"date":"2022-03-08T12:45:34","date_gmt":"2022-03-08T11:45:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pbw.waw.pl\/?p=7595"},"modified":"2022-03-08T12:45:34","modified_gmt":"2022-03-08T11:45:34","slug":"polecamy-maria-mamczur-zony-gejow-o-tym-czego-nikomu-sie-nie-zdradza-krakow-otwarte-2020-isbn-978-83-8135-037-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pbw.waw.pl\/ru\/polecamy-maria-mamczur-zony-gejow-o-tym-czego-nikomu-sie-nie-zdradza-krakow-otwarte-2020-isbn-978-83-8135-037-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Polecamy: Maria Mamczur, \u017bony gej\u00f3w : o tym, czego nikomu si\u0119 nie zdradza, Krak\u00f3w : Otwarte, 2020, ISBN 978-83-8135-037-2"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/integro.pbw.waw.pl\/783102232226\/mamczur-maria\/zony-gejow?bibFilter=78\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pbw.waw.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/ZAMOW-150x54.png\" alt=\"zamow\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"150\" height=\"54\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ksi\u0105\u017cka \u201e\u017bony gej\u00f3w\u201d podejmuje niezwykle trudny i z\u0142o\u017cony temat, jakim jest problem homoseksualizmu w\u015br\u00f3d os\u00f3b, kt\u00f3re \u017cyj\u0105 przez lata w tradycyjnych, dwup\u0142ciowych zwi\u0105zkach, tworz\u0105c nieraz z pozoru przyk\u0142adne rodziny. Trzon ksi\u0105\u017cki stanowi\u0105 rozmowy z osobami homoseksualnymi i ich partner(k)ami. Swoich rozm\u00f3wc\u00f3w autorka szuka\u0142a przede wszystkim na portalach internetowych, gdzie osoby LGBT szukaj\u0105 partner\u00f3w. Nast\u0119pnie pr\u00f3bowa\u0142a nawi\u0105za\u0107 z nimi bezpo\u015bredni kontakt: online, telefoniczny lub poprzez osobiste spotkania. Pierwsze kontakty w sieci by\u0142y jednak najwa\u017cniejsze \u2013 w sieci bowiem jej rozm\u00f3wcy zachowywali si\u0119 w spos\u00f3b otwarty, nie skrywaj\u0105c swoich odczu\u0107, sk\u0142onno\u015bci i zamierze\u0144.<\/p>\n<p>Opowiedziane przez autork\u0119 historie ukazuj\u0105 bardzo zr\u00f3\u017cnicowany obraz motyw\u00f3w i powod\u00f3w, dla kt\u00f3rych obie strony \u2013 kobieta i m\u0119\u017cczyzna \u2013 decyduj\u0105 si\u0119 wej\u015b\u0107 w nietypowy zwi\u0105zek. W przypadku wielu os\u00f3b decyduj\u0105ce jest poczucie samotno\u015bci. Jak zwierzaj\u0105 si\u0119 rozm\u00f3wcy autorki,&nbsp; na pewnym etapie \u017cycia, po prostu u\u015bwiadamiaj\u0105 sobie, \u017ce chc\u0105 mie\u0107 u boku kogo\u015b bliskiego, komu mogliby zaufa\u0107, sp\u0119dza\u0107 z nim wolny czas, niekiedy te\u017c zaopiekowa\u0107 si\u0119 nim. S\u0105 te\u017c osoby, kt\u00f3re boj\u0105 si\u0119 napi\u0119tnowania za swoj\u0105 odmienno\u015b\u0107 \u2013 wol\u0105 zatem wybra\u0107 typowy, \u201enormalny\u201d zwi\u0105zek. Jeszcze inni, nie czuj\u0105c si\u0119 w pe\u0142ni, ani kobiet\u0105, ani m\u0119\u017cczyzn\u0105, chcieliby poeksperymentowa\u0107 ze swoj\u0105 seksualno\u015bci\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>Zdarzaj\u0105 si\u0119 tak\u017ce kobiety, kt\u00f3re wr\u0119cz szukaj\u0105 partnera b\u0119d\u0105cego gejem. Przyjmuj\u0105 bowiem za\u0142o\u017cenie, \u017ce taki m\u0119\u017cczyzna oka\u017ce si\u0119 bardziej delikatny, czy te\u017c bardziej wra\u017cliwy, ni\u017c \u201ezwyk\u0142y heteroseksualny facet\u201d, przys\u0142owiowy \u201emacho\u201d. Ich decyzje i wybory s\u0105 cz\u0119sto podyktowane wcze\u015bniejszymi traumatycznymi do\u015bwiadczeniami: byciem osob\u0105 molestowan\u0105 w dzieci\u0144stwie lub m\u0142odo\u015bci. Takie kobiety decyduj\u0105 si\u0119 cz\u0119sto na tzw.&nbsp; Bia\u0142y zwi\u0105zek.<\/p>\n<p>Inn\u0105 kategori\u0105 par \u201ebia\u0142o-zwi\u0105zkowych\u201d jest zwi\u0105zek kobiety lesbijki, kt\u00f3ra szuka partnera&nbsp; geja zamierzaj\u0105cego <em>de facto<\/em> tworzy\u0107 par\u0119 i realizowa\u0107 si\u0119 seksualnie z m\u0119\u017cczyzn\u0105. Ich zwi\u0105zek ma stanowi\u0107 co\u015b w rodzaju przykrywki dla rodziny i reszty otoczenia, by\u0107 sposobem na unikni\u0119cie niewygodnych pyta\u0144 w stylu &lt;&lt;dlaczego si\u0119 jeszcze nie o\u017ceni\u0142e\u015b?&gt;&gt;, &lt;&lt; dlaczego jeszcze nie wysz\u0142a\u015b za m\u0105\u017c?&gt;&gt;.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Analiza poszczeg\u00f3lnych typ\u00f3w zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w pozwala czytelnikowi z jednej strony pozna\u0107 \u015brodowisko os\u00f3b nieheteronormatywnych, a z drugiej strony, zmierzy\u0107 si\u0119 z w\u0142asnymi emocjami wobec z\u0142o\u017conego problemu homoseksualizmu. Wszyscy bohaterowie przedstawieni w ksi\u0105\u017cce, opisuj\u0105 swoj\u0105 t\u0119sknot\u0119 za wej\u015bciem w zwi\u0105zek homoseksualny.<\/p>\n<p>Ksi\u0105\u017cka trzyma w napi\u0119ciu. Czytelnik pocz\u0105tkowo gani jej bohater\u00f3w za nieetyczne podej\u015bcie do partnera, stopniowo jednak, poznaj\u0105c r\u00f3\u017cne mo\u017cliwe motywy post\u0119powania, zaczyna rozumie\u0107 ich wybory.<\/p>\n<p>Opracowa\u0142a:<br \/>\nBo\u017cena Stacewicz<br \/>\nWydzia\u0142 Udost\u0119pniania Zbior\u00f3w<br \/>\nMarzec 2022<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ksi\u0105\u017cka \u201e\u017bony gej\u00f3w\u201d podejmuje niezwykle trudny i z\u0142o\u017cony temat, jakim jest problem homoseksualizmu w\u015br\u00f3d os\u00f3b, kt\u00f3re \u017cyj\u0105 przez lata w 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