{"id":51361,"date":"2023-05-11T11:20:00","date_gmt":"2023-05-11T09:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pbw.waw.pl\/?p=51361"},"modified":"2023-12-08T13:18:12","modified_gmt":"2023-12-08T12:18:12","slug":"polecamy-ciala-obce-opowiesci-o-transplciowosci-paula-szewczyk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pbw.waw.pl\/ru\/polecamy-ciala-obce-opowiesci-o-transplciowosci-paula-szewczyk\/","title":{"rendered":"Polecamy: Cia\u0142a obce: opowie\u015bci o transp\u0142ciowo\u015bci, Paula Szewczyk"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Zam\u00f3w<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Temat transp\u0142ciowo\u015bci w naszym kraju od dawna przesta\u0142 by\u0107 tematem tabu. Osoby transp\u0142ciowe coraz cz\u0119\u015bciej dokonuj\u0105 coming outu. Jednak nadal napotykaj\u0105 trudno\u015bci \u2013 finansowe, gdy\u017c koszt operacji zwi\u0105zanej z korekt\u0105 p\u0142ci to naprawd\u0119 du\u017cy wydatek i przeci\u0119tn\u0105 transp\u0142ciow\u0105 osob\u0119 cz\u0119sto na ni\u0105 po prostu nie sta\u0107. Inny problem to aspekt medyczny \u2013 leki, hormony, terapie\u2026 Coraz wi\u0119cej os\u00f3b si\u0119 na to decyduje.  U\u015bwiadomiwszy sobie, \u017ce urodzi\u0142y si\u0119 w ciele nijak nie pasuj\u0105cym do tego kim s\u0105, s\u0105 przekonane do tego, by podj\u0105\u0107 walk\u0119 w poszukiwaniu drogi do bycia sob\u0105. Tyle i a\u017c tyle. I maj\u0105 do tego pe\u0142ne prawo. Inny wa\u017cny aspekt to zmiana oznaczenia p\u0142ci w dokumentach. Nie wiem, czy zdajecie sobie spraw\u0119 z tego, \u017ce Polska jest jedynym krajem w Unii Europejskiej, w kt\u00f3rym, by zmieni\u0107 p\u0142e\u0107 w dokumentach nale\u017cy wytoczy\u0107 proces cywilny w\u0142asnym rodzicom. Wspomina\u0142 o tym wcze\u015bniej Piotr Jaco\u0144, polski dziennikarz i autor recenzowanej r\u00f3wnie\u017c przez moj\u0105 osob\u0119 ksi\u0105\u017cki \u201eMy trans\u201d<\/a>. On to wie z osobistego do\u015bwiadczenia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I tak, w wielkim skr\u00f3cie opisa\u0142am pierwsz\u0105 cz\u0119\u015b\u0107 ksi\u0105\u017cki autorstwa Pauli Szewczyk. Cz\u0119\u015bci zatytu\u0142owanej \u201eG\u0142owa\u201d. Kolejna cz\u0119\u015b\u0107 \u201eCia\u0142o\u201d jak \u0142atwo si\u0119 domy\u015bli\u0107 zwi\u0105zana jest z totalnym brakiem akceptacji cia\u0142a, w kt\u00f3rym przysz\u0142o \u017cy\u0107 osobom transp\u0142ciowym. W tej cz\u0119\u015bci dowiemy si\u0119 tego czym dla os\u00f3b transp\u0142ciowych jest \u201ebalast\u201d. A wam z czym si\u0119 kojarzy balast? To przeszkoda, trudno\u015b\u0107, sp\u0119dzaj\u0105cy sen z powiek problem. Ot\u00f3\u017c dla transm\u0119\u017cczyzny balastem b\u0119d\u0105 piersi. Z tej cz\u0119\u015bci dowiecie si\u0119 r\u00f3wnie\u017c tego, \u017ce, by zakry\u0107 balast nosi si\u0119 bindery lub inaczej sztywniaki.  S\u0105 r\u00f3wnie\u017c specjalne bindery, kt\u00f3re transkobiety zak\u0142adaj\u0105 na narz\u0105dy p\u0142ciowe, tak by by\u0142y mniej zauwa\u017calne \u2013 (m\u00f3wimy to oczywi\u015bcie o przypadkach przed tranzycj\u0105). Pozwoli\u0142am sobie o tym rodzaju odzie\u017cy napisa\u0107 nie tylko dlatego, \u017ce to dla mnie nowo\u015b\u0107, ale w du\u017cej mierze dlatego, \u017ce autorka opowiedzia\u0142a przypadek Gabrieli, kt\u00f3ra z my\u015bl\u0105 o synu decyduje si\u0119 otworzy\u0107 pracowni\u0119 szyj\u0105c\u0105 bindery i bielizn\u0119 sp\u0142aszczaj\u0105c\u0105. S\u0142u\u017cy tym samym ogromn\u0105 pomoc\u0105 dla innych os\u00f3b transp\u0142ciowych w Polsce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wreszcie trzecia cz\u0119\u015b\u0107 \u201eSerce\u201d. Paula Szewczyk opisuje tu m.in. histori\u0119 Adriana (imi\u0119 jest zmienione), kt\u00f3ry maj\u0105c rodzic\u00f3w z jedynymi s\u0142usznymi pogl\u0105dami (despotyczny ojciec oraz ca\u0142kowicie podporz\u0105dkowana mu matka), spotyka si\u0119 z jawn\u0105 pogard\u0105 z ich strony i pr\u00f3b\u0105 zmiany to\u017csamo\u015bci z pomoc\u0105 (jak\u017ceby mog\u0142o by\u0107 inaczej) ksi\u0119dza proboszcza i zakonnika, prawdziwych specjalist\u00f3w w tym zakresie. Z drugiej strony mamy histori\u0119 Tadeusza, kt\u00f3ry egzamin z bycia ojcem zda\u0142 na medal, poniewa\u017c dowiedziawszy si\u0119 w\u00f3wczas od szesnastoletniego syna o jego dysforii przytuli\u0142 go i powiedzia\u0142 \u201ekim b\u0119dziesz, to b\u0119dziesz, bo ja i tak b\u0119d\u0119 ci\u0119 kocha\u0142 tak samo\u201d. Osobi\u015bcie mnie to bardzo wzruszy\u0142o, cho\u0107 wydaje si\u0119 to by\u0107 oczywiste, poniewa\u017c tak powinien post\u0105pi\u0107 ka\u017cdy rodzic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jakie uczucia towarzyszy\u0142y mi w trakcie lektury ksi\u0105\u017cki \u201eCia\u0142a obce: opowie\u015b\u0107 o transp\u0142ciowo\u015bci\u201d? Ca\u0142y wachlarz: od smutku, przera\u017cenia, rado\u015bci i nadziei. Nie brakowa\u0142o \u0142ez. Przeczytajcie koniecznie t\u0119 ksi\u0105\u017ck\u0119. To co opisa\u0142am w tej kr\u00f3tkiej recenzji to tylko niewielki wycinek tego co tam znajdziecie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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