{"id":6228,"date":"2021-11-22T10:47:27","date_gmt":"2021-11-22T09:47:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pbw.waw.pl\/?p=6228"},"modified":"2021-11-22T10:47:27","modified_gmt":"2021-11-22T09:47:27","slug":"polecamy-jak-byc-tata-marek-warecki-wojciech-warecki-ilustracje-jacek-frankowski-warszawa-wydawnictwo-ksiezy-marianow-mic-2008-isbn-978-83-7502-131-8","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pbw.waw.pl\/uk\/polecamy-jak-byc-tata-marek-warecki-wojciech-warecki-ilustracje-jacek-frankowski-warszawa-wydawnictwo-ksiezy-marianow-mic-2008-isbn-978-83-7502-131-8\/","title":{"rendered":"Polecamy: Jak by\u0107\u2026 tat\u0105, Marek Warecki, Wojciech Warecki, ilustracje Jacek Frankowski, Warszawa Wydawnictwo Ksi\u0119\u017cy Marian\u00f3w MIC, 2008, ISBN 978-83-7502-131-8"},"content":{"rendered":"


\n\"zamow\"\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u0119 urocz\u0105 ksi\u0105\u017ceczk\u0119 naby\u0142am w jednej z bibliotek publicznych na Mokotowie. Zapewne najpierw zauwa\u017cy\u0142am kolorow\u0105 ok\u0142adk\u0119 z rysunkiem bawi\u0105cych si\u0119 razem kolejk\u0105 ojca i syna. P\u00f3\u017aniej dostrzeg\u0142am tytu\u0142: \u201eJak by\u0107… tat\u0105\u201d. Wiedz\u0105c, \u017ce w rodzinie w 2021 roku przyjd\u0105 na \u015bwiat dwie nowe istoty, pomy\u015bla\u0142am, \u017ce warto kupi\u0107.<\/p>\n

Autorami niniejszej pozycji s\u0105 dwaj psychologowie, kt\u00f3rzy od wielu lat zajmuj\u0105 si\u0119 doradztwem psychologicznym. Prywatnie s\u0105 bra\u0107mi. Ksi\u0105\u017ck\u0119 zadedykowali, a jak\u017ce, swemu tacie.<\/p>\n

Wiadomo, \u017ce \u0142atwiej zosta\u0107 ojcem, ni\u017c nim by\u0107 przez kilkadziesi\u0105t lat. \u015awiadomi tej trudno\u015bci, a jednocze\u015bnie ogromnej warto\u015bci roli ojca, autorzy napisali t\u0119 ksi\u0105\u017ceczk\u0119. Jest to lektura dla ka\u017cdego m\u0119\u017cczyzny, kt\u00f3ry zamierza lub ju\u017c jest ojcem. Nawet dla m\u0119\u017cczyzn, dla kt\u00f3rych czytanie jest sportem ekstremalnym, bo chocia\u017c \u201eJak by\u0107… tat\u0105\u201d traktuje o sprawach bardzo istotnych, to jest napisana lekko i z \u017cyczliwym poczuciem humoru. Ca\u0142o\u015b\u0107 za\u015b uzupe\u0142niaj\u0105 inteligentne rysunki Jacka Frankowskiego.<\/p>\n

Zachwalam, ale jeszcze nie napisa\u0142am, co czytelnik znajdzie w \u015brodku. Autorzy wyr\u00f3\u017cniaj\u0105 sze\u015bc faz ojcostwa w zale\u017cno\u015bci od wieku i etapu rozwoju dziecka, od bycia tat\u0105 niemowl\u0119cia do \u2026 bycia dziadkiem. Po wyliczeniu tych faz zwracaj\u0105 si\u0119 do czytelnika: \u201eAha… Je\u017celi jeste\u015b ju\u017c na etapie 4. to bardzo ci wsp\u00f3\u0142czujemy. Z nastolatkami nie ma \u017cart\u00f3w\u201d. Ju\u017c to zdanie pokazuje, \u017ce ksi\u0105\u017cka nie jest trudna i pe\u0142na zad\u0119cia, \u017ce czytelnik jest traktowany jak bliski kolega, kt\u00f3rego nale\u017cy zrozumie\u0107 i mu pom\u00f3c.<\/p>\n

Panowie Wareccy pisz\u0105, czym r\u00f3\u017cni si\u0119 mi\u0142o\u015b\u0107 ojcowska od macierzy\u0144skiej, jak wa\u017cne jest wprowadzanie dziecka w \u015bwiat norm i warto\u015bci (\u201eOjcze, im wi\u0119cej zamieszania w spo\u0142ecze\u0144stwie, tym twoja rola wa\u017cniejsza\u201d). Bardzo pomocne, konkretne, s\u0105 rozdzia\u0142y o rozmowie z dzieckiem i o autorytecie, o czasie tylko dla dziecka, o karach i nagrodach, o kontroli (\u015bwietny rozdzia\u0142) i o wielu, wielu innych sprawach.<\/p>\n

Ksi\u0105\u017ck\u0119 zamyka Dekalog m\u0119\u017ca, kt\u00f3ry bardzo zainteresowa\u0142 moje kole\u017canki bibliotekarki. Przedstawi\u0119 tylko punkt IX: \u201eNie opowiadaj o wspania\u0142ych kole\u017cankach w pracy, kt\u00f3re tak Ci\u0119 rozumiej\u0105…\u201d. Reszt\u0119 nale\u017cy doczyta\u0107 samemu.<\/p>\n

Reasumuj\u0105c, warto przeczyta\u0107 i mie\u0107 w domu na p\u00f3\u0142ce \u201eJak by\u0107… tat\u0105\u201d. To poradnik, kt\u00f3ry u\u015bwiadomi, pomo\u017ce i \u2026 zrelaksuje!<\/p>\n

Przeczyta\u0142a (dwukrotnie) i poleca
\nJolanta Przybylska
\nWydzia\u0142 Opracowania Zbior\u00f3w Zwartych i Specjalnych<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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